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Wrong time to be in Love

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Question - (15 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2008)
A female Philippines age 18-21, anonymous writes:

im inlove to a politician that is 17 years old older than me and he has his own legal family, we have sex for how many times but im not that sure of what will i do if his wife know our relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

Look back over all the news reports of the last 20 years regarding politicians who have had affairs. How many of them have left their wives and families? Remember Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky? To answer your actual question, his wife finds out she will stand by her man, they will present a united front and you will be vilified as a temptress or a 'bad girl' who led him astray. You are so much younger than him with your whole life ahead. At your age, there's loads of gorgeous guys out there for you. Get him to buy you some nice jewellry, then dump him for a younger man!! All the best x

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (15 February 2008):

Annalisa agony auntYou have your whole life in front of you and the whole world to explore. Why have you fallen for this man? He's old enough to be your dad and has a family. It's more than likely he's using you for sex, to feel more of a man and in charge.

In most cases like this, the man never leaves his fanily for his lover. You can tell it's a dead end if all you ever seem to do is have sex, when you see each other. That's no ground for love and you're setting yourself for a lot of heart ache!

Let him go, girl, and find a real relationship.

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

You do know that he will never leave his wife for you? All you are to him is sex and whatever else he doesn't get at home? He is using you for all he can get from you and that is the sad realization of this "relationship"

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