Would you sacrifice some of the passion to preserve a relationship that is fufilling in other ways?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I guess I don't know where to begin. I have an issue that is pulling at my heart. I have been dating a man for about 8 months now. We are great friends, we can relate, similar interests, etc. We also seem to have passion in the bedroom. But the romance aspect has never been where I would like it.We kiss and touch, of course but it doesn't always feel like true passion. It's hard for me to talk about, he swears he loves me and he claims that he just may not be as into kissing as I am. He also says that he was like this with his other girlfirends and that it is his personality. He even said some of his weakened desire to kiss could be linked to meds. And I'm not sure if I'm buying it. I really do love him, and he's my best friend. I just want to know if any of you out there would sacrifice some of the passion to preserve a relationship that is fufilling in other ways? Any feedback would be great!

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