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writes:A couple of weeks ago, I was crying in study hall when a sort of friend of mine that I kind of have a crush on came over and gave me a tissue. He talked to me and asked me what was wrong. I was really vague and I was kind of sobbing and in hysterics; I was too afraid to tell him what was going on. (I'm not going to post all of my problems on here, it would take too long) But even though I barely said anything, he sat there and talked to me and made it clear I could always talk to him. We've had a couple of really awkward conversations since then, but I really regret not telling him what was wrong. I can't really explain it, I just like him a lot and feel like talking to him would help me...I don't know how to do it though; it would be weird to just go up and say to him 'i have asbergers and abusive parents and I'm suicidal and I cry all the time because I'm living in hell and I have no God.' How do I talk to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): I've been in a similar situation and therefore I would say: try to talk to him. If you feel down and depressed you should talk to someone and if he seems to care and feel like listening, and you feel like chering with him. Tell him. You will feel a lot better. My suggestion would be to just try to talk to him about other things first. This will make you both relax and more comfortable. You can then approach the subject slowly. Ask if he have time to listen. And then tell him all that you feel comfortable with telling. When I told my friend/crush I started telling just the short version first, then he asked some questions and so I answered. It all came quite natural once I've started to tell about my problems. And by the way, my friend/crush is now my boyfriend since 3 years. ;)
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