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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My husband I have been separated five months. Our marriage was rocky and eventually just fell apart because he was having a midlife crisis and couldn't decide what he wanted...so I left.He has been pleading with me to reconcile with him almost as soon as I left. At first,I paid him no mind at all but he is still going strong. It is starting to wear some of my hard resolve down and wonder if he really has changed like he said he has.I just don't know if I can trust him or if he is worth another chance. Would I be a fool to try again with someone who treated me so badly? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (4 February 2009):
 Only you will know that answer if he has cheated on you then that is something i can understand where the doubts come in, he has to be making huge changes for you to allow him back in because the old he is not what worked with you so he firstly has to recognise beyond a doubt he cannot be that same person.
It is up to you whether you reconcile with him and give him another chance if you do well that way you will see first hand if he has changed you are the best one to decide that!
Gina
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female
reader, pastfirst +, writes (4 February 2009):
 By "mid-life crises" I gather you mean he cheated on you.
Only YOU can know if you should give him another chance. If there are children involved I'd advise you to give it another go. If not, and you're over him, get on with your life.
Don't let him harass you. If you're ready to make it clear that you want him out of your life, make sure he stops pestering you.
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