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Would I be a fool to try again with someone who treated me so badly?

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Question - (4 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My husband I have been separated five months. Our marriage was rocky and eventually just fell apart because he was having a midlife crisis and couldn't decide what he wanted...so I left.

He has been pleading with me to reconcile with him almost as soon as I left. At first,I paid him no mind at all but he is still going strong. It is starting to wear some of my hard resolve down and wonder if he really has changed like he said he has.

I just don't know if I can trust him or if he is worth another chance. Would I be a fool to try again with someone who treated me so badly?

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A female reader, pastfirst United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

pastfirst agony auntBy "mid-life crises" I gather you mean he cheated on you.

Only YOU can know if you should give him another chance. If there are children involved I'd advise you to give it another go. If not, and you're over him, get on with your life.

Don't let him harass you. If you're ready to make it clear that you want him out of your life, make sure he stops pestering you.

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