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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hii...i am married with a guy for 3 yrs...as far as he is a gud person,takes care of me as well...but only thing am uncomfortable is he makes continous eye contact with other women..he doesnot start it...if others start the play he responds for it...he knew i dont like it,but he wont stop...one of my friend started this flirting eye contact...i dont know who are wrong in this...but am feeling uncomfortable,disrespectful...so i started ignoring her...she is also married with kid of 2 yrs...i used to meet her once a week before this.but now like am not calling her in order to avoid meetings...i am not sure she knew the reason for avoiding...but am feeling guilty for doing like this...but i have no option bcos my husb doesnot understand me...according to him,he is not doing wrong,am thiking bad of it...but my concern is he makes eye contact like 24/7 when we meet their family....am becoming paranoid if things might go wrong...pls throw some light...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2013): thank you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2013): I can understand your point .. Sit him down and explain that yes you understand that he going to look at a pretty girl , hey that okey . We all acknowledge the opposite sex, even you do . But this holding eye contacting flirty smiling is just damn well degrading to you and your marriage .. Tell him you won't have it you won't tolerate it.. It it were me and I know he'd deny it when I raised this topic. I would make sure then that he couldn't I'd video him on my phone .. I'd also tell roving eye Harry, that if he continued I would do the very same with his friends iOr any good looking guy .. Well your only playing by his rules . As for your friend I would call around on my own and give her the reason why I have cut contact .. Tell her, you thought your friendship meant more to her than that , and you can no longer trust her . Would she like it if you flirted with her man ? I think not ! When you decided what side to plant your feet . Stand your ground .Take care sweetie x
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2013): The bloke doesn't seem to be happy in the marriage.Are you guys having enough sex.Are you taking care of his emotional needs.Is he feeling lonely.Woman answer my questions
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