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writes: Hi, I am stuck in a really hard situation. I am currently with someone, and the one who I think about has someone too. We met on his visit day to the college, then this month he started, we started to talk again and everything is fine.But lately, I have had so many arguments with my boyfriend he has too. Our relationships are on and off a bit. Ever since we spoke about my problems, he has been friendlier: *looks at me a lot. * Whenever my bf is around he looks at me then looks away. * He asked if I was going to watch his gig in college.* When I had my makeup take off after a show I was part of, he noticed me called and I said "sorry don’t look at me I look awful". He asked me why. I told him that I had no makeup on and that I looked hideous, he said to me in front of his mate "I don't care ...” If he ever sees me at lunchtime, he'd look at me till I notice him and then walk over and chat to me and my mates (he is with his mates at these points). Most of the time he looks as though he wants to come over but doesn’t want his mates to say anything.. I am even sure that one time his mate mumbled something about me to him, and he turned around and came over... Does any of these signs mean anything? If it does what should I do I'd really appreciate your help!email me at sabrinadickens@msn.com Reply to this Question
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reader, omon  +, writes (8 December 2007):
 Hello there,His continious looking without taking any approaching action kinda mean he is not yet sure of what he is about getting himself into, or he is not yet confident enough to make advances.You should give him a surprise ''green light'' someday and watch his reactions, if he comes forward with his intensions, then you know that he is the shy type and you would have problems exploring his feelings, but if he doesn't, then let him play the game the way he want it...you have played your part by ''going out of your way'' as a girl to let him express his intensions.
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