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writes:Okay so where to start...Well i'm back in a relationship with a guy I was with for two years before but we've only been back together a month and theres a problem I split up with my ex 6 months ago and still love him as many of you who have read my previous questions will know....BUT now that I've moved on is it okay to still think about him and love him? I don't love the guy im with now but I don't want to hurt him AGAIN I just can't get the other guy out of my head I want to be back with him so much it hurts but theres no chance of that now. Also the guy im with now did know about my ex before we got back together and I kept telling him that I loved my ex and always will and he doesnt seem to care.What should I do? - Please help.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (1 July 2006):
 I'm confused here which is probably apt because you seem to be too. The guy you are with now is one u had been with for two years previously but in between that you had another relationship which broke up 6 months ago and you are still in love with the 6 month guy?? Is that right??
I think its good that the 6 month guy seems to be understanding about how you feel about your ex. Obviously if things are how I have read them then its very likely your current bf loves you to be so understanding. If you dont want to hurt him again and there is no chance of you being with six month guy then I think you have to focus on what you have.
Pour your energies into doing positive things in the relationship you are in and see how things go and see if the feelings can grow for this guy. If they cant however then you will have to reasses things maybe, however you must feel something for the two year guy else you would not be back with him, and have stayed that long before...i know it is hard but shift your focus....hope that helps. Take care.
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