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writes: i forgot something in the last question. my boyfriend said even if i am pregnant he wont leave me, and wants to spend the rest of his life with me no matter what the outcome is cause what ever happens is meant to happen. but if i am pregnant idk how to tell my parents..im only 15 and hes 16..and we never meant for us to even have sex, we've only been together for about two and a half years now. my parents would kill me if im pregnant and they found out. do you think they'll split my boyfriend and i apart if i do end up pregnant? how do i tell them? is there a way not to? Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (29 August 2006):
 first things first make sure you and your feller are capable enough to look after a baby as your only 15 and when you reach 18 and can start drinking in pubs and clubs you may want to start going out and about you wont be able to do that if you have a baby, as well as that theres money, stable liveing make sure you have all that sorted! if not i would advice you to think if this is the right thing to consider keeping the baby. second of all can you ask your feller if you can stay with him if your parents do decide to try and split you 2 up im sure his mom/dad would say yes as your carrying their granchild. then soon as you know its a yes tell your parents then of course they may hit the roof and go mental as your only 15, but give them a few days to calm down if they still havent and are trying to force you to do what you dont want to do i mean going on about an abortion and you dont want it then leave and move in with your boyfriend, give it a week or so then ring your parents and see if they have calmed down by then i should imagine they would of. but remember haveing a baby at a young age means your freedoms gone, you may end up single parent, and it is seriuosly time to griow up NOW! soon as you give birth you not 15 anymore you become 20 and have to act that way.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (29 August 2006):
 I think you would be surprised about your parents reaction if you were pregnant, they would not be happy sure, but they would be supportive. Same with your boyfriend, they would not be happy with him, but I am sure they would respect him more if he made it clear that he wants to support you and the baby.
If you are pregnant, then you really must tell your parents. Maybe you can tell a schoolteacher or relative and then you can tell your parents together. You will NEED your parents support most of all. Dont try to hide it from them.
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