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writes: My best friend's ex-husband wants to move in with me and my child and be our "maid". He and I are just friends and there is nothing there but I am worried about how my friend will really feel although she says she doesn't care. She has re-married and moved on. Also I wonder what my family and friends will feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2005): Try telling him "I am really flattered that you asked me, but I am afraid I don't need anyone else living in my home. It doesn’t work for me" Aside from sounding like he's lonely, he seems needy and desperate to find a place to "hang his hat". Also, I think he might be trying to wedge himself in your home, to be in a better position to keep tabs on the ex-wife. Better rethink this-I don't think your friend (ex-wife) will be too happy, because she'll see what he's up to. Don't allow your home, to be used as his "drop in center"-you have a son and remember to be a good role model. Good Luck
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 November 2005):
 This sounds kinda looney to me. For the sake of your kids don't do it. What kind of man wants to be a maid? I repeat, don't do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2005): I know times have changed, but you are doing yourself no good considering this move. If you value your friend's friendship, then say no.
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