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writes: Theres a guy that im with who i am mad about. However his ex is apparantly very jealous and even 2 months on we r not together if n e 1 was to ask. Just recently his ex has been in contact with him saying that he knows, and now this guy says he wants to finish it. I like really really like this guy and think he likes me but im worried that he wants to finish it to stop problems with his ex? what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): You can't do much except to be a more gracious, supportive, loving, mature person than this guy's ex will ever be. In other words, show your bf that you are the 'better person'! And that shouldn't be too difficult if his ex is jealous because we all know that jealousy is about power, control and deep rooted insecurities. Hopefully, your new guy will take note of that and not give the ex a 2nd thought. If he does dump you for the toxic BS the ex puts him through...then who really, really wants a guy like that? What would that type of behaviour tell you about this guy of yours? Think about it and keep using your head. It'll get you far further than just using heartfelt feelings.. Be strong and stay steady. Take care.
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