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female
age
22-25,
*iss williamz
writes:Just broke up with my 2years boyfriend recently. I am so confused i feel so bad. Ifeel like am to blame for the break up. This how it started since this year my boyfriend changed he even wanted us to break up at one point due to the long distance that we barely saw each other. But i talked him out from the break up. But since then he changed communication was readuce to upto 1 or 2 call in 2weeks time. When i asked him what is happening he doesnt tell me but jst tells me hes got alot in his life. So i gave him space then he came back and apologized for acting cold towards me i accepted. Due to that he never even bothered to try to bring us back to where we werd. This hurt me alot. After a whil he asked if i have found someone else out of anger i told him yes which i lied. But now he doesnt even want to hear from me. Not even greeting when i find him online. Now my question is will he ever come back and give me achance to explain? How can i forget him and move on?
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (19 June 2009):
 Sounds to me like HE was the one seeing someone else and that you are taking all the blame for this when it was actually him that started backing off from your LDR. He didn't seem that keen on it in the first place, you had to talk him into it.
You can get over this by meeting guys that are in your local area and maybe take a break from the computer/online social world. Stop looking him up online and go for a walk or spend time with your friends, you'll feel much better. When you are tempted to try and contact him, stop yourself, and do something positive and productive instead. Good luck!
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reader, xxbaybeegal  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 I think that you should just concentrate on your life and move on
If he wont give you a chance to explain whats going on, then why bother wasting your time with him?
He's clearly stated that he doesn't want to talk to you because he won't say hello to you on the social network site and doesnt return your calls
Just move on with your life and find someone else
because this guy is probably not worth it.
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