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18-21,
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writes:My boyfriend and I were together for over a year, during that year he was on my families cell phone plan with me, and whenever we would get into a fight he would start crying and tell me how much he loved me and didn't want to lose me. He wasn't very ambitious (20 yrs old and still didn't have a drivers license) I gave him a year to get his stuff together, at the end of the year I told him I wanted some space to keep from breaking up with him, well i would hang out with friends and he would just cling harder with constant call and txts. well one night i got so angry i broke up with him. 3 days later i realized how much he really did mean to me and begged for him to take me back, well by the end of that convo we were both crying saying that we loved each other but he still wouldn't take me back, the next day he wouldnt answer his phone so I went to his house where i called him on his house phone, (his parents loved me) well in about 3 to 4 days he had already met someone else that he worked with. I got the phone back which he said if i took it away that he was never going to talk to me again. It's been almost 2 months. THe woman he's with now is very self centered and none of his friends like her (which they all really liked me). This issue is tearing me up inside and it hasn't gotten any better because it doesn't make sense to me really. So will he ever call me again? and can someone shed some light on the situation?
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reader, diane30561 +, writes (10 March 2008):
There is a reason you wanted your space and there is also a reason why you broke up with him. Everyone wants to be wanted and when they are not wanted they chase and when they are wanted they push.What your dealing with is a battle within yourself. You didn't want him and it was easy to let him go because he chased you but now that he found someone else it eats you up inside... Remember his family and friends are not the ones that dated you nor the one dating his current girl. My point is it doesn't matter what they think of you or her... it's his choice.If you wanted him you should have held on. Remember the reasons you weren't happy with him. We tend to forget the bad things.
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