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writes:Why would a guy you hooked up with and was dating for three months and you know he loves you and you love him, stop calling you because you told him you didn't know if you was free to go out with him on Friday, and that you would call him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): He's a jerk. Seriously, this guy is not grounded.
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reader, amazon +, writes (17 March 2008):
amazon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAfter reading all the answers, you all are right. He is insecure. Yet, I never thought he would stop speaking to me for something like that. I wasn't trying to blow him off. I was going to see a client that weekend. I called and told him this and he still does not speak to me. oh well. It's been four months now. Thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): why did you not know? sounds like its hanging on someone elses actions. Maybe be he assumed its a man. Or maybe he thought youre a very passive person.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Maybe he is waiting for you to call him? When someone tells me she or he will call me I don't call her or him. Instead of wondering what's on his mind why not call him (even though it's past friday) and talk to him?
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reader, happytochat +, writes (17 March 2008):
Sounds to me like he took it personaly and/or assumed you were trying to blow him off. If this is what he did then maybe you are better off without him because to me that seems like hes insecure. He probaly felt like he wasnt important to you, as you couldnt commit to any plans with him. So either now he has taken what you did as a sign that you arent interested in him, or he is playing games, but ignoring you, trying to make you feel like you are less important or something like he felt when you told him you werent sure about friday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Well, the control issue someone else mentioned might be at work, but it could be far simpler.
DID YOU CALL HIM?
He might have taken it as a rejection, women do use that method. You ask them out, they say 'oh I am not sure, I will get back to you' meaning 'I don't want to but am letting you down gently'.
Trust me, I know ALL the rejection lines :/
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Maybe , he took it personally or a rejection from you.I am only speculating and it is better you ask from the lion's mouth for the real reasons.Call him and feel him out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Maybe because this guy thought he was in control and he doesnt like you making the decisions. You will have some idea by know how he thinks, mind you some blokes brains can never be fathomed.It is hard to understand why some blokes do this and even some women, but get in touch with him and make a date for another time if you cannot make Friday. If he doesnt get back to you then he is too childish and immature for you and if that is it then move on. Just look on it as experience and a lucky escape. But on the other hand he may be busy and just hasnt got back to you.
take care
xx
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