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Why is my boyfriend suddenly acting differently regarding oral sex

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Question - (16 March 2019) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2019)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello, I have a quick question. My boyfriend is 54 and lately, when I'm performing oral on him, he remains soft yet ejaculates. Also, lately, he only wants me to suck, no licking around it like he used to like and suddenly, he's been pressuring me to finger his butt. When I ask what's up, he gets dismissive and changes the subject. Any ideas on both?

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (18 March 2019):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntI agree with Honeypie, but would hope he'll see a doctor if it continues. I would also add not to do anything he pressures you into.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2019):

He is at an age when ED starts showing in most men. He should take this matter very seriously because ED is an early call of some more very serious health problems such as cardiovascular desease, diabetes, and enlarged prostate. Hence the finger in the butt thing IMO. Ask him to see his doc.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (17 March 2019):

Honeypie agony auntThe finger in the butt is for prostate stimulation. Makes it more pleasurable for him.

As for why he prefers "sucking" to licking.... it has a more powerful sensation and will get him off faster, I'd wager.

He wants to try something different, something new.

THAT is my guess.

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