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Why is it so painful when we try to have sex? The doctor says I'm fine healthwise.....

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Question - (21 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *lakbarbie writes:

i went to the doctor so its not anything health wise..ok so now after we tried to have sex twice, we tried again, for a third time. it still wont go in and it causes me excruciating pain... maybe i over-exaggerated but it hurts pretty bad. this guy is overly experinced and love everything about him and he never lies. i known him since 10th grade about 4 years and he was always the "popular" guy and i wasnt anybody, now im gorgeous so i hear and fully developed but my biggest problem is that i want to have sex with him sooo bad but he said he doesnt want to keep hurting me so we cant try anymore. i was a virgin when we first tried but i bled and it didnt go all the way in..but i just want to have sex with him so bad but it still wont go in...i no if we talkd he would try again but i dont want to "fail" so to speak.. i no he doesnt use lubricated condoms, and he always tries doggy style...what should i do..not trying again isnt an option..i get so excited when i think about him and..i just want to sooooooo bad..please help me again..lol

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A female reader, MarvelLove United States +, writes (21 January 2010):

MarvelLove agony auntThey say if you take hot baths everyday or every other day it will losen up "down there". Maybe it wont hurt as bad when if you losen her up. It always hurts for me going in, but after a little while it starts feeling good. Try taking hot baths for a week and try again!

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