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writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. We usually would have sex once or twice a week for the first 6 months then it gradually decreased to where we haven't had sex in at least a couple of months. Now I am finding it hard to initiate sex with her. What's my problem? I am interested Just seems like since it's been so long, I don't know what's wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 May 2012):
 I have a couple of questions:
1. Since YOU don't/aren't initiating sex, IS SHE??????, and,
2. IF/when you DO initiate sex, does she respond enthusiastically, or does she respond half-heartedly, as if being intimate with you is a chore?
I lived with both of these circumstances for a couple of years, with a woman... and finally decided that there was no sexual/intimate compatibility... and that that was fatal to the chance of any continuing relationship between us... We parted ways....
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (3 May 2012):
Start with the massage. Start with no pressure and just try to make yourselves relaxed and happy and let things take off from there.
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reader, Garm +, writes (3 May 2012):
she is making it hard for you, either intentionally or subconsciously. ask her why. be prepared to hear things you may not want to hear. if you don't hear them, she's holding them back and you're not communicating effectively. if/when she does divulge assess whether or not it is worth it to adapt.
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