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writes:hi everyone ok i have a question that might seem stupid but i dont know what 2 thnk of the situation! my boyfriend is still w/me after everything ive done 2 him ive lied 2 him a few times and he told me he'll be w/me no matter how long it takes 2 make our relationship work so what im asking is what is goin on in his head 2 make him stay w/me i mean i love him and dont want 2 lose him but its weird is really wantin 2 make this work between us or am i just along for the ride? he also told me that no matter happens between us he'll b by my side he said it could take forever b4 we get this rite but as long as were 2gether doin it idk what 2 think plz help me! thanks so much Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): I feel very sorry for you boyfriend. He has put up with a lot of heart ache and still loves you.
He is giving you another chance.
How you lied to him is very important? Did you hurt him or were they little lies about yourself that you were ashamed of.
Something tells me that you do not feel as though you deserve him or anyone for that matter. This I doupt is true. Everyone deserves to be happy and to be with the one you love.
If you don't think you're that into the relationship then you should really end things now before he gets hurt very badly, it wouldn't be fair to mislead him anylonger.
Tell him that you do not feel as though you deserve him and why. You may be over reacting to a few white lies that were superficial.
Either way you have to be honest with him and stop lying to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): well, if he means it, you're lucky. but don't continue lying. be a better person. be glad he's willing to give you chances. i'm about to break up with my bf because i've lied too, but i know he won't take it. don't lie anymore. be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): I think you should stop lying to your boyfriend & get a grip on your relationship & yourself.
You either are overjoyed & relieved that he's taken you back after you lied to him twice or you don't want to be with him & are disappointed he forgave you.
So which is it?
Either be true to the guy, be honest with him in the future & get on with your relationship.
Or
Break up with him already if you're looking for reasons for him to break up with you.
If you really love him you wouldn't lie in the first place.
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