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anonymous
writes:I have been with my partner since September. It all happened really quickly. I am in my thirties and he is in his forties. We moved in with each other after a short while. Everything is going great. The last couple of weeks he has been very secretive when I walk into the room though and when he is on the pc he quickly jumps off it. Should I be worried.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 He might be ordering you a special gift for Valentines Day, or your birthday. He might be doing some bankig on line and feels weird about you knowing how much or how little his bank account has in it. Maybe when he's not around you can look at the internet history and see if anything looks unusual. Other than that, I wouldn't be too concerned. Just look for other signs of secretive behavior, like strange phone calls, or text messages at odd hours and disappearances he can't explain.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 You have one of two choices,
Either you are worried, or you trust him, and you don't worry about it.
Secrecy is never fun, but it might not necessarily mean something negative.
Maybe it is something positive.
Just keep your eyes and ears open. And stay positive.
He might be planning a surprise for you, or he might be doing something dodgy.
If you are really uncomfortable with it, then just ask him about it. And then take it from there.
Good luck.
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reader, fallenn angel +, writes (8 January 2008):
 i think that any man who acts suspisiously..
think why..
or it could be that he was doing something for you?
in my experience tho...
if he has not got a feesable answer..
think!
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