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Why is 1st love so hard to get over?

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Question - (27 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Why is it always so hard (so fucking hard) to get over my first love?! It’s killing me inside really. Well, not really, but it’s almost equivalent to something eating me from the inside.

Is it harder to get over someone you’ve lost your virginity to? I’m just wondering. He was gonna be my first but we broke up before it happened.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009):

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Thank you Ginalolabridga! I also want to thank the first answer. Hey remember me?! I used to be your friend on here. if you want, we can be friends again! :)

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A male reader, Leo Gallagher United States +, writes (27 January 2009):

Your first love is especially hard to get over for the simple fact that it is your first time experiencing true heart break. Things will get better, but it will take time.

As many wise men have stated, behind every heart break is an even greater victory. If your heart is broken, it means you had high hopes for love and high hopes for a wonderful relationship. This is a great quality to have, and some day you will find a wonderful man who is ten times (or more) greater than your first love.

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