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female
age
30-35,
raima
writes:dear friends, currently i am not working last year i was working very good but i resign due to some reason and now looking for a job now a days i find my husband is commenting to me sometimes like i am earning alone or i am tired i had so much workd today. i know it's quite common problem in work but he seema to comment to me like i am not working and he is superior to me even i never spend money like him and also we dont have any child now so why he is doing with me like that.last time when he was umemployed that time i never comment even i was worknig that time but now a this time he is bit change. WHY?
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (25 April 2008):
 It sounds like he needs to be appreciated more. I may sound sexist here but I find men need a lot more appreciation than women and women probably need more reassurance than men. It sounds ridiculous, but it works- remind him of how much you need him and how great he is for supporting you during this time. Cook him nice dinners and rub his feet, etc... He'll complain less and you'll be able to take your time finding a job! He will respond to this better than you discussing how irritated you are with him.
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