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writes:i don't really know how to start this question but hear goes,basically i am 16 and i have recently just lost my virginity i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i don't really enjoy sex with him, i enjoy the build up the touching, his hands wondering etc but i don't actually enjoy it while werre having it. The only thing i can enjoy is the satisfaction he gets from it. I'd love it to end and us both be like wow that was amazing but i just can't. Please Help !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): I dont mean this to sound patronising so take it as you will.....
I think it is your age. I can honestly say I didnt learn to enjoy sex until I was about 19. I had it and as you said I really enjoyed the satisfaction from the other party and to an extent I think I thought that was what was ment to satisfy me.
I think as you get more comfortable with exploring each other and when he gains an interest in satisfying you (which again men dont tend to do until they mature a bit or have long term intentions) then you learn what you like, how and where you like it and only then is it enjoyable.
Your not abnormal in any way, I hope all girls experience realisation that they are not gettin enough from sex, it would solve some of the sorry situations out there!
At least I can give you hope that it does get better - and the best is yet to come for you!
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (3 March 2008):
 Girls need a little more attention and time than boys, during love making. First of all it's important that you are fully relaxed around him. Knowing each other better and having fun outside of sex will help you get more emotionally intimate.
Then make sure he spends as long as it takes stimulating your clytoris before he enters your vagina. He can do this with his fingers or his mouth. It should turn you on enough for you to feel your vagina getting wet.
Once you are really turned on, let him penetrate you. Squeeze your vagina as if you were trying not to pee. This will increase sensation! Try different positions too!
Girls often assume intercourse will be instantly pleasing, but that is rarely the case. Doggy style is a great position for you to clymax easily, as he'll be able to hit your g-spot at every thrust, but make sure he can keep going for as long as you need him to.
Good luck and keep in touch if you need more info!
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reader, SexKitten69 +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Hi Hunn,
I totally agree with Mandy7, take time out to 'explore' on yourself and once you've found the things that you like show your b/f, he would prob love that !
Take Care, Please Rate :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Im sending you a link love, You may need to explore your body a little.. To get to no your own body is important so you no what you like and the feelings that make you feel good hope the link helps hunnyhttp://www.teenwire.com/ask/2007/as-20070423p1488-sex.php
TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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