i am 19years old and my husband is 20 and this feb 14th 2010 we will be married for 2 years. and weve been together 3. we have a son. but thats not our problem. our relationship is so confusing. i really dont mind cleaning, i used to clean the house for him all the time but he started acting very immature ive ive just had this mind set that if he wont then i wont. i cant figure out how to get out of that mind set either. my husband doesnt talk about our relationship he flat out seems as if he doesnt care. he wont do anything for me. as soon as he gets home if he has to go to the store or go to a friends house(and i know hes there b/c ill call him if i need him, so hes not somewhere else)back to subject, he never wants to go anywhere with me ever! if his friends invite him out anywhere even to their house he will go. but when it comes to me he wants to sit at home. i wish i could somehow talk to him about our problems but as soon as something in that subject comes up he flips out. idk what to do. i cant talk about our relationship at all! and he is so boring. the sex is great, but all he wants to do is sit at home or leave me there with the baby. i beg him for us to go do something (and its VERY easy to get a baby sitter, our sons fav aunt) but he still doesnt want to do anything
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009):I got married at 19 and I am 26 now. I was like you in the begining of my marriage. I started feeling this way, wondering why he never wants to take me places, or surprise me with anything, or how he ignores me around family... I had these feelings back then and fast forward to 7 years later the way I feel has only gotten worse and worse. If you are already having these feelings, you might want to get out now and save wasting years with a man that doesnt truely satisfy you in every way that you need. And more then likely he will get worse. =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009):This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh and also i am home so much now that i can never go anywhere to meet any new freiends. i want friends but i can never go anywhere. and about the cleaning thing he wont help me even though i am working a full time job, going to school and making sure that his immature a. isnt doing anything stupid.
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