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writes:I asked my husband for anal sex. He does not want to do it. WHY?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): You asked for anal sex?! Too bad there aren't more adventurous women like you. I wish you were my girlfriend, I wouldn't turn you down.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (17 December 2007):
 Because he doesn't want to. We won't know the answer to that question, only your husband - you should ask him why.
However, if it's more adventurous sex you want then there are plenty of other things that your husband might want to try. Try getting some books on sex and sexual techniques and look through them together. Maybe you'll both find something that intrigues you and want to try together. Don't force him to do something he doesn't want to do - that does not foster intimacy in a marriage because it will feel like the person is being forced or coerced into doing something they really didn't want to do.
Also, there are plenty of websites offering sex tips and techniques. Be careful though, when you do a search like that you will often find porn websites too.
Hope this helps.
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reader, sammy296  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 this may be because he doesnt like the prospect of having his penis thrust up an arse hole, but i suggest to just ask him about it. hope this helps:)
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reader, hemé'oono +, writes (17 December 2007):
 Maybe he doesn't like it. Maybe he thinks it's dirty. Maybe he has a phobia. Maybe he is homophobic and that is what he thinks of with that sexual act. The fact of the matter is, if he doesn't like it it would be like him asking you to do something you didn't want to do. My suggestion, if you like it so much and he doesn't, then grab a dildo. :)
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