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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Have been having a little relationship for a while and it was just casual and fun, with a kind and intelligent man. The problem is initially I met his mate, who dumped me. His mate made out that I was a complete mad woman ....I probably am in some areas!But then seemed pissed off I was happy with his friend.It all got to me and I left them both to it. Recently I got involved once again with the kind man, and back it went to his mate showing too much interest in my situation, in a way, trying to manipulate me into bad mouthing his friend to him. Once again I have left them both to it and am just left wondering why if he dumped me and thinks so little of me, this man seems intent on not wanting me to be with his friend and showing me up in a bad light to their whole group of friends, but on the outside being like the one welcoming me into the group. He has manipulated situations when I am alone with him to help him with his work and apart from being interested in what I and his mate are getting up to has no interest in me as a person. It's a strange one - any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2013): Remove yourself from the situation and start a fresh. If this group of friends and their entwined relationships are not good for you initially they never will be. People get unsettled by change and new ideas and leave them to it , if they not able to accept a new face.
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