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22-25,
*iket389
writes:I just need to Vent a little... I really can't believe how rotten some people can really be...I was seeing a girl for about 5 months in said time she just put a good game on and really is a terrible manipulative rotten person.. Slept around ALOT... and this was someone whom i Really began to care about before i found everything out... Ive done my best for the last 2 months to just move on with my life but she just won't stop.. sending me pictures of us saying how happy we looked and misses me.. in the meantime going out of state for a race with 3 guys shes barley knows... Ends up taking non tastful pictures on a race car and sleeping with at least one person that ik of there... which is fine but then procedes to come home and send me pictures again saying how much she misses me and how our pictures make her cry!! all the time Knowing what a hard time i have with the whole situation... How can someone be so cruel to others and at the same time not care about themselves? it hurts me worse than anything to know the things she does.. maybe its because i care but it still hurts... just having a hard time trying to do the right thing for me:(
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (15 October 2009):
 Do your utmost to ignore her then, when she no longer gets the attention she is craving she will soon get the message.
Gina
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reader, Miket389 +, writes (14 October 2009):
Miket389 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI couldbut its a small town... wouldn't last for long shed find a way to get at me if she really wanted to idk... just can't imagine doing this to somebody
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (14 October 2009):
 Sorry you're going through this. I don't think she is trying to be cruel. She craves attention and doesn't stop to think about how her actions impact others. People like this have tunnel vision and are rather self absorbed.
Can you not block her cell number and emails?
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (14 October 2009):
She sounds bad news, your doing the right thing to forget her, as much as it hurts to do this especially when you started to develop feelings for her, think of her behaviour, her morals and values is this someone whom you really want to be with?
I would ignore her and i would change my cellphone and house phone so she gets the message she ain't using you like some toy!
Gina
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reader, Yos  + ♥, writes (14 October 2009):
 That sounds horrible.
I suggest your next course of action is to ignore her: don't reply or respond to any of her advances. She'll eventually lose interest.
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