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anonymous
writes:My husband and i have been married just over 2 years we have 2 kids a girl and boy both under 2 my husband works part time and me home with kids every time i kiss him o want to be romantic he pulls away i mean his realy good with me, he cooks for us and does as i say but y does he pul away wen i come close? We have sex almost everyday. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2012): Perhaps he's just not as an affectionate person generally, as you are.
Was he ever more affectionate in the marriage, or has he always been like this?
It honestly just sounds like you are a naturally more affectionate person than he is and you expect more than he does on that side of things, and its becoming annoying to him.
Just talk to him and see if you can find out why, but everything else seems ok in the marriage, so I don't think it would be anything too serious to worry about.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 August 2012):
 You say you have sex, but is it intimate? Maybe he is stressed out with working and having two young children to come home to then as well. The only way you are going to get the answer to your question is to be honest with him and ask him why he pulls away from you. See if there is something you can both work on. Sex is one thing but you need time to yourselves as well away from the children, so make sure you are making time for each other as a couple as well. Organise a babysitter and go out and enjoy yourselves.
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