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Why does my ex stare and try to get really close to me?

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Question - (8 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2012)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was at my ex's work the other day, he works in a supermarket and i was at the self serve thing with my mum and he wouldnt stop staring at me, he stares at me everytime i go there or even if i see him anywhere, anyways he walked towards me and leaned down near me and gave me a voucher you get after spending 30 dollars but when he did, he talked really softly to me and came really close to me when he gave it to me, this isnt the first time his gotten close to me either, everytime he walks past me or something he will get as close as he can to me then at the last minute he will move around me, why is he doing this?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (9 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwho broke up with who?

because if YOU broke up with him then Annalisa is right

if HE broke up with you then Sageoldguy is probably right..

if you broke up with him he may still have deep feelings for you... how long ago did he become your ex?

if he broke up with you then he's playing head games or he's regretting his actions.

if you are even remotely considering getting back with him you will have to talk to him.

IF you don't even consider getting back with him then just ignore him and don't worry about it.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (8 March 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntHe's doing it to intimidate you. Guys LOVE to have power/be in control of situations..... and, if you react as I suspect you do (with a skittish shirk) then he's gotten his satisfaction from the interaction... and then goes about his business armed with another dose of testosterone (which he got from startling YOU).....

I suggest you ignore him and hope that he'll get bored with this stupid game after a while....

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