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Why does an ex blow hot and cold?

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Question - (13 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi All,

I have a question. Why is it that my ex is very close and loving with me one minuite, and the next will not answer my messages? Then I call him like a week later and he is over like a shot? Is he confused about wanting to get back together? Is he being cautious? what is the best thing I can do in this situation? ( PS _ I would like to get back with him.. he knows this too.)Thanx. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010):

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HI , Thanks for your answers. I think he may be feeling something - yes. I am going to send him a text today saying, look I enjoy your compnay , but if we cannot see each other more, then lets move on, plus I am going to as you said ask him if he loves me or not? I hope he is not playing with my feelings. If he is,. then I need tomove on. Fast. x

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A male reader, Kohnal United States +, writes (14 October 2010):

Kohnal agony auntI went though the same thing with my ex. When I went though it I was getting angry because I was insecure. I got really Jealous and even called her names that should never be said to someone you really love. But back to your problem, I think that he is feeling something he hasn't felt before. Or on the flip side....He could be like my cousin who plays with a girls heart. Meaning he will be nice and loving one minute and the next he can be the meanest to her. He did this to my Ex many a time. All I can say is make him put it to you point blank. Ask him "Do you love me Yes Or No?" and make him answer in a yes or no....I hope the best for you

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