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writes:My girlfriend wants a sex toy about 7 inches, maximum 11, and while I do find it arousing, I would rather she not use it every day. She says it's "what she likes", even thought I am actually below average myself as much as I hate to admit it. Am I just beating myself up for nothing or is there really a problem here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Does she already have toys, or is this her first? I find women who have toys usually start with an average one and get a few bigger and a few smaller to add to the collection. One GF had ones mainly aimed at her G-spot. Even tho she had been with a few well hung guys and liked it, she did not have any large dildos. So you cant assume her preferences for toys will have anything to do with what she prefers or feels she's mising in the real world. Unless you are really small, I'd say she is just getting what she likes and not trying to compensate.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Why do men prefer boobs bigger than real life? It's just her personal taste I guess. Most women I've talked to prefer something average sized, since huge hurts. If it's making you feel bad you should talk to her about it. They also make products to even made a replica dildo of your own penis, you could try that. Why not go shopping for a sex toy together and get one you can both feel good about? Like a bullet one (that you don't insert) or something. I'd imagine this is similar to when guys use porn with women with huge breasts.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 October 2010):
 Not all girls are that way. Many prefer smaller as well. If it's what she likes, then that's what she likes. I wouldn't concern yourself too much over it unless she starts to prefer her toy to you. That's when it is a problem.
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