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writes:dear cupidi have been with my boyfriend for a while now everytime we start to make love hes try to inter me and he gets soft on me and leaves me hanging. he is 50 years i am 53. i have had this same thing happen t me in the pastwith other men. is it me i need to knowthis is just killing me.i feel no man wants to have relations with me once they see me in bed. i'm not bad looking i had only a hand ful of men in my life time never new how to approach a man thats why only a handfull. but they sure do like the oral i give them.help Reply to this Question
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reader, IAMDONE +, writes (3 May 2011):
It is not uncommon for men starting in their 40.s to have problems with erections and keeping an errection. I understand that the better care a man has taken care of himself has a lot to do with this issue. Another possible cause could be the anticipation of the act and him wanting to be at his best and satisfy you. I am sure this is a slap to his ego. There are many male enhancers now on the market that will help with this problem...again, his health has to be at a state that he can take the medication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK YOU, THIS MAKES ME FEEL BETTER
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 How long has it been since these guys have had sex?
If it's been along time, they are going to be worried about their performance. A lot of vocal encouragement and possibly some dirty talk may help. Keeping the conversation humorous and light will offer them what they need most, and that is a relaxed state.
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