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writes:I was waiting for my mother to pick me up from the subway for about an hour...and so this clearly older guy, wearing "young" clothes (they looked to materialistic for his age) approache me. He had the audacity to tell me that he was 28 years old, LOL! So we started talking he was saying how he wanted to take me out to eat, etc. how his has been out of the country, has a lot of money and works as an engineer. I just looked at him like he was crazy, I joked and said that he was lying.Anyways, he said "Hey, since your mom is taking so long and my intern is not here to pick me up...why dont we go back to my place?" WTF? Why do guys always have to ruin for themselves? He gave me his number before he left and when I got into my mom's car I deleted it immediately!!!:-/
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol @ the last poster...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): Lol common. that's her point.. She would not go to his place of residence and when he asked her to, that's when his chances were ruined. All the men who have asked me out on a date, have been stangers. There's no harm in coffee.. that wasn't the problem. I'm sorry, but are you going to answer her question?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Spoiled or not, i still find it hard to believe that you would've allow a complete and utter stranger to take you places you've never been before, especially his place of residence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Ah but ruining a chance and losing a chance.. entirely different. Yes, to lose there had to have been one. But to ruin.. it only had to be a potential, not set in stone chance. And maybe he did lose it: he had one when he was being a decent man but lost it when he turned into a man hunting for sex and acting lustfuly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): For someone to lose out on something, they must have had the chance of winning it to begin with. Since you were not offering any prizes, there was nothing for him to lose out on. Thats all i'm trying to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ForevahBritt, that is very true. The guy was not physically gorgeous though, just average in my opinion, gorgeous guys are usu. the nicest to me...but I live in one of the gay captials. I do not have a problem with gays, its just that It maybe harder to get a gorgeous guy, lol. ;)
@Sincerley Yours, I dress to cover up every inch of my body, but the clothes that I wear show my shape. Im still very young and have a nice body...its just that I do not really like to show my skin. The attn that men give me for my body (when I showed skin) has always been a turn off for me...if only they get the hint...it seriously made me gag when the guy called me sexy.
Plus I take public transportation, I do not like my skin to touch anything...for ex. if Im wearing shorts, my legs my touch the seats...YUCK. Its hot wear Im live now, so I usu. show my arms if anything...
@Rifraf, the reason he ruined his chances was because 1) He lied to me about his age, 2)He has two kids and Im in college...Im a very spoiled woman, lol and 3)He called me sexy and started talking about going to his place.
Before I knew all of these he said how he would like to wine and dine me (remember, Im spoiled! LOL!), told me about the different cities and countries he has been to, his accomplishments and how was so surprised that Im not only beautiful but very intelligent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Because men like that don't have a good concept in their heads of what women want, or how to treat a woman. He dresses young to loook younger and hopefuly fool the public. He thinks that at the end of the day he will be getting lucky when really is wrong. He also probably mistook you for the sort of woman who would want to go to his place with him. Do you dress to appeal to a man's eye? And hey, if it's worked with women when he was younger, what's making him think it won't work anymore?
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): If you had no intensions of keeping his number and contacting him, how has he ruined it for himself, and why are you so bothered??
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