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writes:i have been seperated from my ex for 5 years but i keep thinking of him i tingle when i see him and i feel that i want him however i am in a realationship and i have had a baby to push me away my ex lies about never loving me but we were together for 7 years however he has moved on but i know that i can have him but i am scared of hurting my b/f i thought that my ex and i could be friends but he is scared and dont want to talk to me waht should i do i love him but i dont want to make any mistakes
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): yes, i think i know the feeling , so you are not alone on that one, i guess the time comes when we have to move on, not easy!
NO of course not, but the more you think about it , well maybe it might happen if you just leave him to his feelings for a while, maybe a long time however look up MMIIs advice on internet.
If you did not get that its cos I am missing someone too!
Feel free to contact me, I came across this site cos I feel so alone and I hope my x is having all the fun in the world , but when and if it stops I hope he will at least think of me, which I do not deserve, I love him with all my heaert but there is nothing I can do about it but wait and see.
lot of luv ,
jan,xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): You must be older than 25 if you have been away from your ex for 5 years and you were together for 7 that said...You cannot have a future if you live in the past....let it go, you don't want to base a decision on a tingle....that is ridiculous don't you think....and you like the thought of a challenge when you say to yourself I know I could get him....stop ruminating about this old boyfriend, he doesn't like you enough to be your friend and won't talk to you, so what kind of choice are you proposing here?If you cannot commit to your boyfriend, marry him so your child has a father, then break up with him, too, and let him find someone who cares about him and will be faithful.
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 March 2008):
 You have a child now. Your decisions must be in the best interest of your child. What you do is going to be your decision. I'll tell you how I make my decisions. (1) What are the positives and negatives for my child. (2) What are the positives and negatives for me. (3) If a decision based regarding self desire, will my child receive equal or greater benefit that I will.Often we regret decisions because we just jump into them. Weigh out the pros and cons with each decision for you and your child and you'll more than likely make the right one.
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