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female
age
26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:Dear Cupid,I'm REALLY scared to have a boyfriend. I've liked guys in the past and they've made moves on me but my fear of relationships has stopped me from taking things further and just genuinely enjoying myself.Its really bothering because I'm starting to question myself. What's wrong with me, am I normal?Its not like I'm gay,before you start saying things.I have no feelings for the same sex. There's a guy that I've been infatuated with for like 2 and half years and we've had a little "thing" going on for ages but I just cant pluck the courage to let him in(if that makes sense).I know I have problems of my own but this guy has been trying really hard to get to know me and all I've done is make things hard and awkward between us.I've stopped talking to him completely(I don't know why), I blank him whenever I see him (that's only because I cant look him in the eyes. Yes! I like him that much.)I just don't know what's going on with me! He's interested , I'm interested , but I wont let him know!He doesn't know I'm shy because in real life, girls like me come across as anything but timid.Are there people out there like me? How do I start talking to him again? how do I let him know Im still interested?Thanks! x x x
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 well you could try writing him a note and give it to him when no-one else is around.
you sound like you are putting up a false front to impress others. thats a mistake. just try to be yourself.
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