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writes: i met a guy through a friend at work. when we started going he was taking everywhere he even took me to see my favourite rapper in concert with in 2 months of being together. i really loved it then all of a sudden it stopped. he lost a job, became very lazy and never could be bothered to go and get another job. It went on for months, he wouldnt get out of bed, justed layed there and played on his computer game. he started smoking weed then aswell, and because i had 2 jobs he took great advantage and i started buying everything and he would except things. if he run out of cannbis he would go mad and argue with me, i was the fool who gave him the money for more, he used to call me names like "div" and " ficko" he would really put me down but i stuck with him coz i loved him so much... yet we had a massive argument and we started throwing things at each other, i went more mad at him and just absolutly lost it he said he wanted to leave but i wouldnt let him go. but after a few weeks he tol me one night he was going back to his parents and the following afternoon he was gone. i know hes treated me like a complete idiot, but, i dont understand why i still love him and want him to come back? what do i do to get him out my mind?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Starr, writes (3 February 2005): To tell you the truth sweetheart; The only reason you love him so much and want him back so bad is because he don't care. We women tend to chase after men who threaten our esteem rather then those who help build it.It's a mind thing as soon as you accept that you are worth more than what he takes you for and no matter how hard it is leave him alone, he'll realize it too.He'll become one with reality and begin to see that you are a good woman who had his back and he messed that up for himself.After all of this happens there is only two ways it can go,either he'll come back and appologize and treat you the way you deserve and you take him back; or by the time he realizes it will be too late and you have already found someone better who loves,respects and cherishes you and he'll regret it for the rest of his natural life.
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