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writes: Why do I always do what I say I'm not going to do and what I don't believe in? For example, I strongly believe in not having sex before marriage and not getting wasted, but with my past boyfriend/fiance I did both of those things, sometimes willingly, sometimes being pressured by him. Then I always end up either feeling resentful toward him or myself. Why do I do what I don't want to do? Does anybody else go through this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): Its just because you are setting standards and expectations for yourself that are unrealistic. It's like if I said "I'm strongly against pollution so I am going to walk to work everyday." Pff. Yeah right.
You are human girl! Of course you have urges and want to have fun in your life. When you are inlove with someone you want to ravage them and make love. And sometimes when you are having a good day you want to go out and have a drink and a good time with loved ones. It's not unnatural for you to want to do these things. What IS a little weird is that you are restricting yourself from doing stuff that deep down you want to do and things that really are not that bad as long you are cautious about it.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (18 December 2007):
It's because you have not come up with a defence plan.Mail me and i'll explain some more.It's like knowing a lion can kill you but yet you play in the jungle.
Letaz
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