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Why didn't I bleed when I lost my virginity?

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Question - (20 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was 18 when I first lost my virginity. The weird thing was I didn't bleed. This caused my boyfriend to think I had lied about being a virgin, and brought about some nasty accusations. I know he was the first and only I ever had sex with, but we really need to know why I didn't bleed. Things won't ever be the same between us again until I find this out. Does bleeding the first time not always happen? Does it mean there is a problem with me? Why didn't I bleed?

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A female reader, angryunka United States +, writes (21 February 2009):

You should be very cautious of accidental pregnancy. Consider anal sex, feels just as good, no risk of pregnancy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009):

Thanks so much all of you, that's a big relief to know. I showed him this page and everything is fixed now. Thanks again :)

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A female reader, prego_18 United States +, writes (20 February 2009):

not every woman bleeds tell him to get over it if he thinks everyone does take him to the obgyn with you and have them tell him and you both it doesnt always happend

i didnt bleed my frist time and i didnt bleed the frist time i masterbated either so it all depends on the person

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

Not every women bleeds when they lose their virginity. I didnt. This can be because the hymen can break before then by doing other activities without you even noticing. and some women dont even have one. So its pretty simple why you didnt x

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