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anonymous
writes:Why is it guys wait so long to text and/or call?Me and this guy we had worked together for a few months but not anymore. We got to know eachother at work, starting haning out outside of work a few times, made out a few times. The other week we had a great time I slept over ( we did not have sex ) he was very sweet very romantic the whole night and next moring. I left early had stuff to do. I text him later saying I had a good time... and no reply. . .
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Nope I agree compeltely with anonymous. No one is "too busy" to answer someone they are into within a weeks time. Not a single excuse for not saying a word in over a week. You said something the other week and no reply... He's not interested. As anonymous has said, any guy is going to be nice when you are in bed, he could be getting something. If he ends up calling he just has nothing else going on. Find a new guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Well I think you should have probably waited for him to text you first after you slept over but I guess that is neither here nor there.
I guess the guy is just not that into you. If he was he would have texted or replyed by now. And remember when a guy has you in his bed of course he is going to be sweet and romantic...I mean it might lead to sex. So I wouldn't read too much into how sweet and romantic he was under the covers. As you see he is not being so sweet and romantic anymore as he hasn't even txted you back.
Next time focus more on judging a guy on how he treats you in public/out of the sack, how promptly he calls/texts, how much effort he makes to show you a good time, be involved in your life, get to know you.
He might eventually call. But it sounds like he is going to do it at his convenience. In other words he has put you in the "women I have to put the least effort into" category. You are his "convenience" girl. And once a guy has put you in that category that is one that is next to impossible to come out of. In other words, next time he is bored or lonely he might call and try to get you to come over again. And that is about the most effort he is going to put into you. If that is how you want to be treated then go for it! If not then blow him off. And next time you like a guy make him put a hell of alot more effort into impressing you before you jump in the sack with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): He could be in the middle of flying to the moon on a pink unicorn. In other words he's probably just been busy.
Just have patience unless he's an asshole he'll reply eventually.
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