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writes: Why is it that I can see the men my friends date are losers, and yet they still think that they are perfect? It's almost like they can see the bus coming but just stand on the road until they are squashed. I am normally the one to scrape them off the road. I just wish that every women knew that they are worth nothing short of awesome! Reply to this Question
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (20 September 2005):
 Well, theres only so much you can do. You've warned them but they're still not listening and trust me, you can't blame them. Have you ever been in a relationship where you feel that you love him so much that you see all his good sides and ignore the flaws? Thats what love does to you. It makes someone's heart go flutter and to be honest, thats how it should be. However, as much as its sometimes good to have a third party advicing on the relatiolnship, it makes no sense that anyone should have a say on the relationship other than the two who're in it themselves. I see you mean good, but I reckon its better if you left your friends to it. Love is something like striking a lottery, only a handful get lucky instantly, but most take forever to even win something, but having said that, I'd rather be in love than be alone!
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reader, Delila +, writes (19 September 2005):
It is refreshing to hear someone that knows the true worth of a womans love. You probably have or had a really nice Dad in your life. Experts say that women usually go for the same type of man as her father. That makes sense to me. Girls need lots of positive attention from their Fathers to make them feel that they are special enough to be loved. Then they will go for a man who treats them as they are used to being teated. Unfortunately some women go through their whole lives choosing loser after loser and never learning from their mistakes. I don't think it is something that they can control, and I don't think talking to them would change the choices they make in life. Just thank your lucky stars that you have more sense and get used to road scraping because if you are going to be friends all your life you will be spending a lot of time helping them to pick up the pieces and I warn you this will get even more messy as they start to make little babies with the losers!
Good Luck.
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