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writes:last summer my ex wanted to get back with me we had been together a very long time and had a child together.we had been split up for 8 months when he said he would like to get back with me,i said i needed abit of time to think about it all,and after 2 weeks i said ok lets give it ago,but he turns round and said he changed his mind as he has met this women and he wants to be with her if she will have him.thing is she doesnt want him and only see's him as a friend.she told me she isnt with him and never will be because he isnt the one for her.he rings her most nights,and she says she feels sorry for him because he has no family or friends,why doesnt he see he is wasting his time and try and give it ago with me.we used to be great friends even when we split up,but that has gone out the window since this women has come along.but he phones me when he wants help with something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Are you sure this will work,only this happened 5 months ago with this women,he is still friends with her and isnt giving up,they never meet up though just talk on phone.surely he would of come knocking by now?
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (8 February 2008):
 I cannot agree more. You must make yourself unavailable and then he will be banging on your door! Men and women love the chase and if they can easily have someting they don't want it. I know you are really really keen but play it cool and it will work
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 It is human nature to want what they cannot get. When you can get easily , they have no interest. You have to make yourself unavailable to him.
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