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writes:hi all i need help ok ive been trying to get pregnant since september of last year and ive been pregnant but miscarried and i was devastated. now i think that i cant even get pregnant because of my past medical history i had cancer when i was 7 i had leukeniaand now im starting to believe its because of that i dont know so i was wondering if you could give me some reasons why i cant stay pregnant! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Well the fact that you have gotten pregnant is a good sign x.
Women who havent suffered with cancer and other serious conditions have trouble getting pregnant too. I have friends who have been trying for years but just havent managed to get the timmings right.They've had tests done and they are perfectly healthy, its just chance I suppose.
But having said that, I have a friend who was told that she couldnt have children and shes got a healthy 6 year old!.
So I think what Im trying to say here is, dont get too upset about set backs just yet. I know its very sad and painful when you miscarry a pregnancy, Ive been there sweety x. But Think of it this way, you miscarried for a reason hun, maybe this particular pregnancy was not meant to be. If its your first pregnancy too, then its likely that there may have been some minor complications that caused the miscaraige. But alot of women sadly, miscarry 2 or 3 times before having a healthy baby. I know its hard but its quite common, its your body's way of making sure that the baby is as perfect as it can be.x
Ok so speak to a doctor about this and try not to get too stressed about it just yet. Just give yourself time to greive a little before trying again.
all the best xxxxx
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (19 April 2008):
 You have to see an obstetrician and get blood work done etc. My sister has been having miscarriages and has been unable to get pregnant for years now. She has just now got the blood work done. They will be able to tell you what, if anything, is wrong. Good luck.
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (19 April 2008):
mattie90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i had leukemia at age 7 and the doctors told me that i have a 20% chance of not getting pregnant
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