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writes:hello everyone, im having a problem with a difficult decision and was just wanting some input on it. So my boyfriend of almost 4 years and i are wanting to move in together. we have the whole house situation and all that stuff worked out, but my problem is that im scared to leave home. i cant stand the thought of my dad being here all alone all the time other than when hes working. i would worry all the time. im really ready to move out though, and i just dont know how to make myself feel better about it. moving out even makes more sense because im never here that much anyways because im always staying with my boyfriend except like once or twice a week, so why am i so worried about moving? i really need some advice on how to deal with it? if im so worried about it should i just stay here? my dad says i should go and if its to bad then i can always come back. how can i get over my fear? any advice is very appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Speak with the men who will be driving the moving van and they will assuage any fears of yours about damaging your stuff.
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reader, Learner.uk  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Hi, by the sound of it your dad supports what you are doing, as you are not their that much anyway it seems to make sense, you also have your own life to live, as said above you can still see your dad and go out etc and like you said you can go back if it does not work out! Hope this help's and good luck
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (12 January 2011):
 hi
does your dad like his own company though? maybe he would benefit from making more friends and getting hobbies too? just because you may have moved out,(unless you are planning to move far away) there is no reason you cannot still spend plenty of time at dads house or have him at yours for meals and stuff, that way he gets to see you, gets out of his house and has his own space too
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