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*mart22
writes:Hi All, Thank you for taking time to read my question :)I am 22 male and currently facing a big trouble regarding sexuality. Before I let you know my main concern, I'd like to brief you about myself. I am stuyding and also working, earning very good bucks. I don't have father's support and I grew up with too much responsibilities. At this age of 22 I have devoted each hour for my family and I am able to overcome all the problems of my family but I have to work continously and can't get time for fun. Now, my main concern. I have been masterbating since teenage. However, suddenly from a few days, I have been experiencing too much sexual desire, I mean to say sex drive. My brain is always thinking about sex, sex and sex. This is acutally disturbing my work and study. As I was masterbating daily, I heard that this is bad and so I tried to stop it but if I stop masterbating, when I sleep in the night, I am getting wet dreams and again all picutre of having sex started and it becomes impossible to control masterbation that time. Even when I wake up in the morning, suddnley my mind is thinking all about sex.The surprise is, now a days, I get dreams about same-sex and even I think of same sex situations! I don't know why this happens. I get very weird dreams like two men loving me, group of men using me hard and when I wake up I realize it was a dream and it was a same sex dream!!! Also, when I watch porn now a days, I am getting attraction to dicks!!! WEIRD! I always turned on by girls only but I don't know why I am getting such dreams and attraction towards dicks. Sometimes, I feel so hot and horny that I think to get enjoyed by men and giving blowjob and I am non stop getting thoughts to give blowjob, have sex with men! When I mastebate, I am getting thoughts of men loving me and I feel teribbly hot in my back!I don't know why this is happening and what to do! Honestly, I have never thought of same sex thing in my life and I never looked ay guys with that feeling and i think this will affect my future gf/ wife relations. Please don't suggest me to go to counseling. I am looking for help from free minded people and not professionals. Your serious and honest help will be appreciated. Thank you very much for taking your time again.
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reader, bharat mehta +, writes (14 December 2009):
 In my honest opinion, you are perfectly normal in your thought and deed. Your love for male's organ is also normal, means it is enjoyed by all most all male, but all do not go for same sex relations. is it right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): i would think that your just currious .. iv alwase been atracted to girls i never walk around and see a guy and been atracted to him but like you i was getting turned on by male genitalia in porn and stuff one time i was in this restroom and i look at the stall wall and i see a hole in it i looked alittle harder and i see some guy masturbating in the next stall and i got all turned on by it and ended up masturbating watching him .. well thought about it for a while and ended up going back and figgered out it was a place where guys often go to masturbate or play first few times i just watched but i worked up the nerve to play a few times now too but i still am mostley atracted to girls well realy onley atracted to girls but i get turned on by a guys genitalia still too
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