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writes:I was recently in a relationship,this person was in a bad way when i met them and without going into detail i helped them to turn their life around and beat many demons.I was the only family and friend they had and stood by them when no one else did,but this person lied to me,didn't treat me great and possibly cheated.It ended when i found out about the possible cheating,it seems unfair that they can just carry on so happily with their lives (after i put their life back on track) when i am left behind in a bit of a wreck.Please don't misunderstand i'm glad its over and i know it's for the best,i don't want them back, but this person has no remorse or regret.I can't seem to get over how a person can be so cruel,spiteful and ungrateful after everything i did for them, they have even tried to make out to others it was my fault it ended and how i was very bad to them and many other lies.If they had a small amount of remorse or feeling i woundn't feel so bad but its just like salt in my wounds the way they flaunt about so happy,their life all great now, lots of friends,money and as if they are right and did nothing wrong, and i am the one left hurt when i'm the innocent good one.It hurts alot to be treated like this and it seems so unfair while they get away with it all. Reply to this Question
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reader, Nevalearn  +, writes (21 July 2007):
You sound like a wonderful person, and the sad part is you'd probably do it all again, even though your probably sitting there saying "no I won't!'. I have been in a very similar situation and you just have to move on, as simple as that. Karma is a wonderful thing.
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