A
female
age
36-40,
*lapure4
writes:Dear Cupid, There's this guy I have been friends with for almost a year and we talk about everything. He comes over to hang out and sometimes orders takeout for us to eat well into the night. He is definitely a confidant and I've grown to like him more than friends. I would say the same for him, but he recently told me that he isn't looking for/wanting a relationship with anyone and it's made me leery about telling him how I feel. Fast forward to last week. He comes over with the intentions of hanging over as usual and we talk for hours. In fact, I have to bring myself to tell him to leave. We were so caught up in conversation. Then he brings up how he never kisses a woman first and that its her duty to do it because he wants to respect her boundaries. He told me this once before, but he was reiterating this me as a way to suggest that I should be the first one to plant the kiss. I don't believe in giving a guy the first kiss; he should kiss me! And secondly, I didn't want to play into that ego of his that the "rule" only applies to him. So I never kissed him.Am I right for feeling this way or did I just miss out on an opportunity to express how I internally feel? Reply to this Question
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reader, nes09  +, writes (6 April 2012):
 you were right
i think you showed enough feelings for him, if he really wants you he'll go for it and kiss you. :)
yes i agree its some kind of "ego" issue lol.
he's a very unique guy to say those thing s though lol :)
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