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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I get this like almost everyday, including going out in publics and where i attend school. i get people from both genders looking, glancing, starring,.... at me. I just mind my own business like everybody else. I also get the same reactions like what i just mentioned in school also and in school female staff other students do the same also. Sometimes it seems like they are flirting with me and sometimes i do not mean to flirt, and oftenly i accidentally flirt even though i don't even realize. I'm not ugly at all, i'm pretty attractive and good looking. Why and please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): I get that also and always have wondered why just like you. I know women look at other women to compare themselves to them or because they envy them or to copy something or if they are lesbian or bi. But when you are very pretty but don't consider yourself to be stunning to everybody you wonder why. Hey I guess we'll die without knowing because we can't ask every stranger why they are looking at us.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (25 December 2007):
 What is your idea of flirting? My wife gets people of both genders looking at her all the time. She is a very stunning woman and people have even approached us (strangers), asking if she's a model. She takes it all in stride.
Why does it bother you? It won't change. Would you prefer the opposite? If someone notices you, it's flattering. There is nothing wrong with that. I don't think you're really "worried" about it...are you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): If you read your own last paragraph, you'll find the answer there!
It's a case of 'I wish I was as good looking as her / I wouldn't mind having HER on my arm'.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): i dont think you need me or anyone else to answer your question. if your attractive ppl are going to notice. im sorry but you dont need help or advice, just maybe a social life
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