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writes:Hi, i need advice. I'm a 19 year old from Ireland. It might sound crazy but I've fallen madly in love with a girl from America who I met online. She's 17. She's from Texas but lives elsewhere now, but is moving back to Texas this summer. I really love her and she feels the same. I've been looking into ways that I can see her asap and i've been applying for a soccer scholarship. I was going to wait until 2011 so i could try to get one as close to Houston as possible. The guy organising it for me said one could be available for this coming September(2010). However it's in North Carolina(approx 1000 miles from Houston. My question is, do you think I should take this one and be 1000 miles away, or wait until next September and try to get one closer? Like i said, i think she's the one and i talk to her everyday through webcam and skype. She means everything to me. I'm afraid she'll meet someone else before next September because she's not only beautiful, but she's an amazing person too. She's assured me that it's impossible for me to lose her but i still worry. Any advice would be great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 I'd wait. If you are gonna be 1000 miles from Houston you would end up still communicating most of the time through webcam and skype,exactly like you are doing right now.
You are worried she may meet someone else in the meantime,but that's not a matter of distance or time , it's a matter of how much your mutual feelings are really deep and strong. She might meet someone else even when you'll be 1000 miles from her. She might meet someone else even if you'd live next door to her.
If she wants to be with you, she will not put herself in the condition and mind frame of "meeting someone else ".
Of course one wonders if at your young age people can really develop a strong mature long-lasting attachment, but that's all another story, and anyway,never say never. Good luck !
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