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writes:I am a 15 yr. old freshman in highschool and I need some advice on what to do about what is quite possibly the best thing that's (almost) ever happened to me thus far in my life.Her name is (girl) and I'm absolutely gaga about her.We've been friends for a while now and I only just recently told her I like her..She didn't immediately object... but she didn't accept either?..After that, it got pretty quiet and then it turned into almost an interrogation or Q and A between the two of us (getting to know eachother and whatnot)We shared things like our aspirations, favorite X and we bothe shared one embarassing(ish) secret with eachother. (she was the one that said something first and i was assured that if i ever told anyone she would personally rip my testicles off :P all in good fun, of course)Then, come Monday, everything resumed as normal. Chat in the hall, hugs :)It got to one of my friends and I belive (girl) said to him quote "(me) finally told me he likes me" or something along those lines...I'm not quite sure where to go from here, and if we ever DO end up in a relationship.. I haven't the slightest clue how to be a good boyfriend!Any help is much appreciated, thank you in advance.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sjroller14 +, writes (17 March 2011):
 Well first of all.YAY!!!!!! You tolde her how u feel and she wanted to get to know u better...that is always a good sign! :)
2nd if she is telling people it may mean she likes u back and she is excited.
and 3rdly if u honestly and truely like this girl and u2 do end up going out just be ur self that is what she is used to and she will be fine with it!
hopefuly ive been of help.
GOOD LUCK!!!! :)
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (17 March 2011):
 Well caring enough to ask is a good first start.
Spending some time here on this site is another.
Honestly, read through 20 or 30 of the relaionship questions posted by hurt and angry women and girls on this site. And read the articles too. Together they will teach more than you could ever hope to learn in 10 years.
But to give you a short version, always treat a girl like a lady. Make her feel special and always let her know where she stands with you, don't make her guess.
Learn how to communicate, and how to fight fair. You don't have to always agree, just listen. Don't be mean to them, but don't let girls walk all over you either. And finally most girls like to talk to their bf a lot, probably more than you realized.
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