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male
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Is it true, if you love somebody, you set them free?or is it if you love somebody you never leave? Reply to this Question |
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female
reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (7 April 2008):
 You have set her free to move on with her life, now it's time to look after yourself and move on with yours.
To truely love somebody you need to love and respect yourself first.
Hold no hard feelings, but if you find staying friends painful, don't feel you have to. Just tell her you need to move on with your life and not to have her in it.
Love works both ways: if she cares about you, as a good friend, she has to respect and accept your need for freedom too.
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to add that im not shielding her. Im not even with her. It's just that i was with her, and she wants to be friends, but i still love her. So im not sure if i should just leave her "set her free" because its hard for me to deal with just being friends. Or since i love her, i should just suck it up and be her friend even though it hurts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Why do you ask this question? If you love someone you dont keep them a prisoner, you give them space to grow and breath and they should do the same to you. You love someone and you want them to be happy.
take care
xxx
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female
reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (5 April 2008):
If you love somebody, you'll respect their freedom to either love you or follow their own path.
Love can give freedom through security too. I feel free because I know my man loves me so much that he will always support me. If he was jelous and possessive, I would feel stifled, instead he lets me be myself and I am willingly bound to him forever!
Make sense?
God bless!
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female
reader, KeRrI117 +, writes (5 April 2008):
 that depends on weather shes happy with you or does she want someone else if so u let her go but if she loves you and the relationship is good then you keep her
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female
reader, ladywolve +, writes (5 April 2008):
 Both. It is true that if you love someone you should let
them go. What that means is you have to let them follow
their heart. You should also try to keep them close to
your heart and get to know each other better, even if just
friends. You can never have to many friends! In that regards, you don't want to leave them. As you become closer you can tell them your true feelings. Chances are
then that they have thought the same and now more deeper
since you have let them sort themselves. If you can talk
openly and that close now. Do it. Just don't expect bells
and whistles. Remember, they have alot going on too and are scared of whats out there. Show them you will be there through thick and thin.
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A
male
reader, enjoimx + ♥, writes (5 April 2008):
 The actual truth is: If you love somebody, you give them space and freedom and respect more so than you impose your will upon them in the name of "love"
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