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writes: I went down on a guy I'm dating for the first time. He wasn't aroused at first but then he started to get hard. Then he wanted me to stop. Believe me, this has never happened to me before! Why do you think he wanted me to stop? Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Cindy, writes (16 March 2005): My boyfriend did that to me - turns out he thought it rude to cum in my mouth or cum altogether. Becasue of his previous girlfriend, he thought he HAD to have sex with me and didn't want to cum first because he wouldn't be able to perform for me. Took me ages to help him realise he was allowed to just take pleasure when I was offering it.Plus some men feel very self conscious - it's a very personal thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2005): It is a thrill to be able to stop ejaculation/orgasm - even for women. He may have wanted this feeling to last as well as keeping himself ready for you for longer.My husband tells me that, at times, an orgasm can be so intense, it hurts! (Don't ask).Some men, as mentioned before, don't like to cum in another person's mouth... perhaps for sanitary reasons, I haven't heard of religious "hangups" before.It takes practice to hold back too.. this may help him... good for him if it is!! You lucky thing!!I certainly don't think it is anything to worry about. IF it bothers you too much, ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2005): Charlene, the lady may not have wanted sperm in her mouth, but it is a touch unusual for the guy not to want to come (trust me on this one).To the question-asker. Perhaps he was shy. Were you somewhere private? He could have been worries about being disturbed. Maybe he had religous hang-ups?
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A reader, CHARLENE, writes (15 March 2005): Well, young lady, maybe he was about to come in your mouth. Would you want that?
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