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writes: After putting my problem online, I hoped I would start to feel better. My husband is really trying hard to make me feel better and to trust him again, but I feel so rubbish. I want to start to heal and I cannot seem to. He loves me and is gutted that he's hurt me, and we've talked it through and decided to try at our marriage, but why do I still feel like I'm useless? I cannot eat or sleep properly and I feel panicky when he's at work or even whilst I'm away from him. When does this go away?
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reader, angelus +, writes (10 May 2005):
Everything you are feeling is completely natural and hard to believe you will ever feel normal again, but you will your husband clearly loves you and is aware he has made a mistake. If you were willing to give your mariage another go, you have to be willing to forgive him and not to blame yourself. People make mistakes. It is how they deal with them that matters. It's hard to let go of such pain, but speaking from experience, holding on to it will only make you bitter. You have to believe in yourself and start to look towards the future. Let go of the past; it will only weigh you down.Take care and good luck
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